Saturday, November 28, 2009
10 LESSONS WE'VE LEARNED IN 2009
Saturday, September 12, 2009
THE SCHOOL YEAR HAS BEGUN
Dave’s two other courses are World Religions and Cults (WRC) and Discipleship. The opening paragraph of the syllabus for each of Dave’s classes reads:
The Bible is the most important book you will ever study. Through it God has revealed himself to us so that we can be in a personal relationship with him. It is an amazing gift! Thus the study of the Bible is our most important task, because it is God's eternal truth for our relationship with him. Biblical truth is essential for your life as a friend of God. Thus, Bible classes are of highest importance.
BETH'S SUMMER
With Dave home more often, Beth has been more active in women’s ministry. Our church’s women’s program normally goes on hiatus over the summer, but God motivated Beth and a friend to keep the fellowship going. Beth and Denise have been co-leading a study over the summer with 7 to 15 women coming weekly (Denise is second and Beth is fourth from left).
One elderly Ecuadorian widow, R., told us that our study day and Sundays are the only happy days of her week.
PUTTING DOWN ROOTS
This was our first summer here with a car and both of us as licensed drivers. It’s been a great blessing to drive around getting to know Ecuador better (see our travel photos). As we make family memories here, we feel more at home and connected in this nation—truly an answer to prayer. Another reason we’re feeling more at home here is that Dave’s parents, Americo and Kathy, moved down in July. The boys adore having grandparents living just a few blocks away!
Saturday, June 13, 2009
Saying "Good" Goodbyes
There were grateful tears as we shared how certain folks had touched our hearts. There were awkward moments saying goodbye to acquaintances we doubted we would ever see again. There was joy in being able to say “thank you” to those from whom we had learned so much. And there were plenty of hugs to go around. When we finally left, we felt a closure about having said “good” goodbyes and we felt freedom to move on to the next stage of our lives.
The end of the school year is a bittersweet time that brings up the question: how will we say goodbye? None of us enjoy saying goodbye to departing students and staff, but in a mobile community like the Alliance Academy International (AAI), it’s a fact of life. It’s easy for kids who see people move in and out of their lives all the time to become jaded about relationships or just to keep things superficial so as not to get hurt. One of the most common defense mechanisms is just to walk away from relationships without saying goodbye. But reflecting back on our friendships and then talking directly with our friends about the blessings and challenges is an important way to deal with our grief. And that’s exactly what Dave had the high school and middle students do when he led one of the last chapels of the year.
Keeping it light at first, Dave started by asking the students (and faculty present) to find someone who had made them laugh that year and to give them a hug. Then he moved on to other topics, like finding someone who taught them the most, someone who they wanted to thank, someone from whom they needed to ask forgiveness, someone for whom they could pray a blessing. It’s the third year in a row that Dave has led this chapel and it has become a real highlight for students looking for a way to find closure and comfort in saying goodbyes.
We’re saying goodbye to a number of our adult friends, too, and ask you to please pray for us - both to be able to have “good” goodbyes and to keep doing the hard work of opening our hearts to new friendships. One great aspect of being children of God is knowing that no goodbye is forever since we’ll meet again in heaven!
Saying Hello
Even in the midst of many farewells, we are preparing for a big hello. The fourth Saavedra baby will be arriving sometime around November 14. The big brothers are very excited to meet our new addition (Levi pats Beth’s tummy and asks, “Is our little girl in there?” while Luke insists that he’s going to have another brother).
Bonus Video: Blast from the Past!
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
A Week with the Saavedra Family
Monday: After Dave walks to the Alliance Academy to kick off a week of Bible teaching, Beth gets the boys ready to grocery shop at Quito’s biggest supermarket chain, Supermaxi. It’s very similar to grocery stores in the U.S. and there’s even a bigger version of the store (called Megamaxi) that includes apparel, toys, electronics and appliances.
For our first two years in Quito, we always took cabs (about $1.50/ride), which was getting to be a handful without car seats for the boys. But now, thanks to your kind support for our work with HCJB Global, we have finally purchased a vehicle! We love the freedom it affords and the opportunities to give rides to our friends!
Tuesday: The boys and I prepare to attend Bible Study Fellowship. Our study on Moses is a real hit with them because, as Luke says, “I have a brother named Aaron, just like Moses did!”
The rest of my small group is all Ecuadorian ladies and most have only a basic grasp of English (the language of the study). We laugh a lot as we try to pronounce Hebrew words like Kohathite in both English and Spanish.
At school, Dave spends Tuesday lunches with a small group of young men, alternating more serious Bible study with weeks of fun activities (they were playing Wii together this past week – another hit!).
Wednesday: It’s off to AWANA’s Club on Wednesday afternoons, or, as Levi and Luke call it, “Iguanas.” It’s fun for Aaron and Mom to have some quality time alone while the boys are gone. At night Dave does mid-week stress-busting playing soccer (called futbol here) with fellow teachers and school alumni.
Thursday: Titus Women is a Bible study sponsored by our church and Beth leads the weekly worship time with her guitar. This gathering has been the source of some of her closest friendships and prayer partners. It’s also a time for sampling cuisine from around the world as Ecuadorian, German, American, Canadian, Filipino and Colombian ladies take turns bringing snacks to share.
Friday & Saturday: When Dave isn’t working on lesson planning for the upcoming week, these are our days for entertaining. In a highly mobile community like ours, it can be hard to open up to friendships when you’ll likely be saying goodbye to those people in a year or two. Yet we all long to know and be known, so we make a point to keep reaching out. And the returns in friendships are rich indeed!
Sunday: We head to church at English Fellowship. Beth leads music about twice a month, so Dave pulls extra kid duty. And then comes the Sunday afternoon siesta (nap)– hopefully as much a staple in your home as in ours!
Regardless of the day of the week, every evening ends with Beth speaking the Aaronic blessing over the boys before bed. And it is our prayer for you, through your week that: